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Formation in the Rubble of Loss – Sept. 14, 2025

September 14, 2025

Lamentations 3:17-26

This Sunday Melissa Rogati shared from her personal story of lament and dealing with a dark period in her life. It’s very uncomfortable to be in that place. As humans, we don’t like being there. But as she came to eventually realize, God is in the dark too! It’s us who feel discomfort when we’re in the dark. But if we can’t sit in the dark and know that we are safe, where is our faith?

We can force ourselves to be upbeat, even when we don’t see the good coming, but that is not authentic. We don’t need to force an upbeat spirit to prove anything to anyone, including ourselves. Even when we can’t engage with that upbeat, we don’t have to force it when we don’t want to. But we continue to seek the goodness of those around us while we wait in the dark. Because we still believe, even in the dark, that there’s goodness to be had. Because the Lord is good to those who wait for Him. It is good that one should wait quietly for the Lord.

Melissa Rogati speaking at RMC in front of a colorful quilt on Sept. 14, 2025
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Formation in the Rubble of Loss - Sept. 14, 2025
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